How do I get my child to stop using a pacifier ?

Most children stop using a pacifier by age 3 or 4. As long as the habit is discontinued by time their permanent teeth come in (around age 4-5), your child will be fine. If, however, they continue this habit as their permanent teeth come in, it is best to help your child quit.

• Often, simply explaining to your child the bad things (deformed teeth, deformed jaw) that can happen if they continue to use the pacifier will go a long way to getting them to stop.
• You should not give negative reinforcement or punish a child for using a pacifier, as this can cause the child to further embrace the habit.
• Gradually wean your child. First start by not allowing them to use a pacifier during certain hours of the day. Gradually reduce the number of hours they are allowed to use their pacifier.
• Pacifier use is often a security mechanism. Consider giving them a teddy bear, a blanket, or lots of hugs to, in effect, replace the pacifier.